The American education process continues to have problems. These problems are getting worse according to analysis of standardized test scores. According to some sources, mandatory attendance laws contribute to the situation.
In the push for excellence in education, individuality has been discarded. Some children, whether through lack of motivation or lack of family discipline, are simply obstacles in the process.
(OK, there's a start for you. It's too long to do the whole thing. Now, just pick out and list the main points and you're done.)
I am aiming of law or medical school,i live in canada but as soon as my brother starts working in Boston(he graduated from Harvard Medical School like a few months ago) he will pay my university fees to get me into a law institute,maybe even harvard,good luck to all candidates who will go through this…
Not sure about the UK, but in Canada we have an LLB. It’s not a doctorate, but it requires either a bachelor degree or three years of study in another program in order to get into it.
LAW SCHOOL SCAM….HOW THE LAW SCHOOL >>check this vid.
if you have the intelligence to go to medical school you should do that instead. its probably more rewarding and you are surrounded by good people all day every day
It sounds like your wife is depressed and misses India and her friends and family there. She has no will to do anything, no passions and no ambitions.
It would be interesting to have a talk with her about this, and really get to the root of things and find out how she truly feels. I don't think she has always been lazy if she was a doctor in India.
You say she has friends, but what kind of friends are they? Are they jobless ambition-less people like her? Since she will not be an American doctor anytime soon, encourage her to join social clubs where she can meet people who are passionate about things. Anything is better than just sitting in front of the tv. It is possible with other interests in her life, she will feel more comfortable where she is, and remember how she used to be.
If she cannot express to you her feelings, maybe it would be interested to try individual or couples counseling, or help for depression.
Also, since this was an almost arranged marriage, make sure she feels comfortable with her. Show her some love. Try not to bring her down any furthur
I wouldn't honestly know, my in-laws are SO wonderfuls I think they're insane because of it… lol
But quick question…. why in the hell hasn't your husband told them to shut it with the rude comments?
As your husband, its his job to stand up to them, especially if they are speaking ill of you.
If your husband has an issue with standing up to them, its time to throw the b*tch card in…. I would be in their faces telling them until they showed me some respect, they wouldn't see me or their grandchild…
Only you can allow them to speak to you the way they do… I am independent and I sure as hell wouldn't have put up with half te crap they've said to you.
Time to either have your husband step up or you need to do it yourself.
Going to be totally honest and tell u I didnt read that. But, just to tell you trying to get emaincipated is very hard to do unless you can prove to a judge that you can support yourself….food, clothing, shelter etc… so if you can do what you can to prove it, then thats all you have to show the court, plus show how she neglects /cant take care of you and how ur better off alone
Sorry you were treated that way. Talk to her supervisor and if you want, report their lousy service to a higher authority. The fact that it's a non-profit organization and they're probably sick of seeing young kids with unwanted pregnancies, gives them no right to judge or treat everyone like they're ignorants. Stand your ground, get those copies (which you already know by law you have all access to) and report her. I'm sorry you have to go through that. Sometimes I question our system in this country.
chances of finding another boss like yours this close to school, is going to be impossible.
stick it out if you can, every job will have this type of person, annoying, bitchy trouble maker, etc. Use this for a learning experience for life.
don't ever let anybody make you decide to quit, looks bad on a resume
I hate to say it, cause usually I'm the first to tell people to work it out, but this seems like a lose lose situation. There's nothing you can do to help him anymore, look at all you've done for him and he's still a loser. There's no reason all of that should have happened, except that he is not ready for life, and definitely not ready to be taking care of someone else. He can't even take care of himself let alone both of you. It's really time to move on, you'll be happier on your own, and eventually you'll find someone who can contribute to the relationship. From the little I read you seem like a very caring and understanding person, you'll have no problem finding someone to share your life with. He sounds very immature and self centered, and ungrateful for all that you've done. Stop looking at what it could be and look at it for what it is, hopeless. The main problem I see with couples is the person getting screwed in one way or another usually seems to focus on what the other person was, or what they think they could be. Seeing someones potential is a great thing, but at some point you have to realize that he won't ever reach it.
You still love him, that's not unusual and you'll get over it. Love is not always enough, in this case it's definitely not. He's taken advantage of you in so many ways he can't possibly love you, I mean truly love you. You deserve better, go find it. The only way to leave him is just pick up and leave him, don't tip toe around it or hesitate, just go. Find a cheap place until you get done with school and get your life back.
First of all, Don't think you're the only one because I feel like this alot sometimes. You aren't crazy girl, you are human. You just have the guts to admit the things you do… Sometimes crap just gets WAYY to over whelming for us and we result to our "fits" as we call them. It sounds like you're taking alot of medicine so you should see if cutting back and maybe just taking one kind helps? Dont try and quit taking all cold turkey at one time because that might make it worse. Go to your doctor and research different anxiety medicines. Try not to get on to many because I really do believe that in the end that medicine doesn't do anything but mess people up. My mother was diagnosed with bi polar and they put her on medicine that made her like a zombie, which i would have much rather seen all her emotions than none at all. Just be careful about what you're taking… Birth control can make you nuts too. Try maybe an IUD? Thats the new kind that they actually put inside of you so you don't have to take birth control. Im on ortho tri cyclen which doesn't make me moody at all but does tend to give headaches. Ask your doctor about that and maybe they will switch you over. What current medicine are you taking now? Try different methods when you think you are about to flip out .. Maybe turn on some loud music and just jam until you get some of the built energy out. It sounds like you let it all build up which you shouldnt do hun because its so bad for you… When you feel like you need to say something or you're upset, say it and let it out. Just be careful that you try not to hurt peoples feelings. It sounds like you're very happy with your husband which is so good .. Make sure you remind him how appreciative you are that he has helped you and been there for you thru all of your times. See if there is something yall can maybe do together that would help this .. Maybe instead of shopping as therapy, you guys can make dinner together .. or have a movie night .. or clean the house together on sundays or something like that. Let him know you love him but you absolutely hate being cold and that yall need to come to some sort of agreement on the temp in the house. You sound like a strong woman with a good marriage and I think you just hit a rough spot .. Sometimes it seems like things wont get better but they will.. Just try to sit back, relax and take a breather sometimes before you flip out. Try not to think about all the bad things at once .. because remember, it could always be worse. I hope things get better, I'll pray for you.
The thing i really hate in med jobs is that you have to work like 80 hours a week in some cities….and law school is not a scam,you just need to know where to go in the right time,…
This statement comes from a misinterpretation of the tax code by tax protesters. The tax codes state something to the effect of: "…..for the purposes of this section, the term states includes the District of Columbia…".
What Congress meant was that "state" meant all 50 states plus the District of Columbia. Tax Protesters believe that in means only the District of Columbia. Many people have tried this theory in court and none have been victorious.
And….about Bill Conklin. He is a 2-bit scam artist. He offers $100k to people but proclaims himself sole arbiter of who is right or wrong.
The 861 arguments seems to have fallen out of favor with tax protesters. One of the main proponents of this argument, Larken Rose, went to prison a couple of years ago.
File your returns and pay your taxes. You will be much happier in the long run. Tax Protesters always end up broke and alone.
….and I didn't just have to cut and past my answer like you did the question……
Class rank is a good indicator, but it has lots of exceptions. One of them is me. I graduated from a 4th tier law school near the bottom of my class, and I make almost 3 times what my top 5% classmates are making at large firms like Jenner & Block.
You should absolutely go to P.P. I can't believe that these people have ignored your serious condition and I am very pleased with the treatment that I have received at P.P clinics. They are extremely kind, and if you fill out the forms and state that you have a low income you can get your pills and other products absolutely free.
I too am a student and I am able to get everything for free. It may be a bit crowded at the clinics, but just be patient and everything should work out fine. I wish you the best of luck with law school, I too want to do this after I get my degree in psychology.
If you are questioning it, then it is time to move on. Sounds like they want more and more of your time and your family is more important. Your kids will grow up and you will miss it all. I think it is probably time for you to find something that works better for you.
Abolishing compulsory attendance has been a sick dream of businesses that want to create a slave wage class for a long time. Education can still be the silver bullet to poverty, and a good education accounts for most of the social mobility left in the system. Ridiculous proposal, and self-defeating, since it leaves businesses that need skilled workers with fewer and fewer options. It's a recipe for a low-end economy.
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The profession of a lawyer means meeting people who don’t respect law or have some legal issue or the other in all the cases that the lawyer takes up.If not his client then the other party would be on the other side of the law.This is the essence of legal practice or else this would not exist at all.
The reasons mentioned above are true indeed.
September 5th, 2009 - 12:36
No lie.
September 5th, 2009 - 12:49
you’re surrounded by good people at law school too.
September 5th, 2009 - 13:11
The American education process continues to have problems. These problems are getting worse according to analysis of standardized test scores. According to some sources, mandatory attendance laws contribute to the situation.
In the push for excellence in education, individuality has been discarded. Some children, whether through lack of motivation or lack of family discipline, are simply obstacles in the process.
(OK, there's a start for you. It's too long to do the whole thing. Now, just pick out and list the main points and you're done.)
September 5th, 2009 - 13:12
I am aiming of law or medical school,i live in canada but as soon as my brother starts working in Boston(he graduated from Harvard Medical School like a few months ago) he will pay my university fees to get me into a law institute,maybe even harvard,good luck to all candidates who will go through this…
September 5th, 2009 - 13:16
Not sure about the UK, but in Canada we have an LLB. It’s not a doctorate, but it requires either a bachelor degree or three years of study in another program in order to get into it.
September 5th, 2009 - 13:26
He's embarrassed and most likely depressed.
September 5th, 2009 - 13:33
LAW SCHOOL SCAM….HOW THE LAW SCHOOL >>check this vid.
if you have the intelligence to go to medical school you should do that instead. its probably more rewarding and you are surrounded by good people all day every day
September 5th, 2009 - 22:08
Paralegal troll, lmfao!!!
September 5th, 2009 - 23:43
It sounds like your wife is depressed and misses India and her friends and family there. She has no will to do anything, no passions and no ambitions.
It would be interesting to have a talk with her about this, and really get to the root of things and find out how she truly feels. I don't think she has always been lazy if she was a doctor in India.
You say she has friends, but what kind of friends are they? Are they jobless ambition-less people like her? Since she will not be an American doctor anytime soon, encourage her to join social clubs where she can meet people who are passionate about things. Anything is better than just sitting in front of the tv. It is possible with other interests in her life, she will feel more comfortable where she is, and remember how she used to be.
If she cannot express to you her feelings, maybe it would be interested to try individual or couples counseling, or help for depression.
Also, since this was an almost arranged marriage, make sure she feels comfortable with her. Show her some love. Try not to bring her down any furthur
September 6th, 2009 - 05:36
I wouldn't honestly know, my in-laws are SO wonderfuls I think they're insane because of it… lol
But quick question…. why in the hell hasn't your husband told them to shut it with the rude comments?
As your husband, its his job to stand up to them, especially if they are speaking ill of you.
If your husband has an issue with standing up to them, its time to throw the b*tch card in…. I would be in their faces telling them until they showed me some respect, they wouldn't see me or their grandchild…
Only you can allow them to speak to you the way they do… I am independent and I sure as hell wouldn't have put up with half te crap they've said to you.
Time to either have your husband step up or you need to do it yourself.
September 6th, 2009 - 08:51
Going to be totally honest and tell u I didnt read that. But, just to tell you trying to get emaincipated is very hard to do unless you can prove to a judge that you can support yourself….food, clothing, shelter etc… so if you can do what you can to prove it, then thats all you have to show the court, plus show how she neglects /cant take care of you and how ur better off alone
September 6th, 2009 - 13:19
Sorry you were treated that way. Talk to her supervisor and if you want, report their lousy service to a higher authority. The fact that it's a non-profit organization and they're probably sick of seeing young kids with unwanted pregnancies, gives them no right to judge or treat everyone like they're ignorants. Stand your ground, get those copies (which you already know by law you have all access to) and report her. I'm sorry you have to go through that. Sometimes I question our system in this country.
September 6th, 2009 - 17:16
chances of finding another boss like yours this close to school, is going to be impossible.
stick it out if you can, every job will have this type of person, annoying, bitchy trouble maker, etc. Use this for a learning experience for life.
don't ever let anybody make you decide to quit, looks bad on a resume
September 7th, 2009 - 01:45
Rather I shot me in the foot than voluntarily studying the law!
September 7th, 2009 - 06:44
I hate to say it, cause usually I'm the first to tell people to work it out, but this seems like a lose lose situation. There's nothing you can do to help him anymore, look at all you've done for him and he's still a loser. There's no reason all of that should have happened, except that he is not ready for life, and definitely not ready to be taking care of someone else. He can't even take care of himself let alone both of you. It's really time to move on, you'll be happier on your own, and eventually you'll find someone who can contribute to the relationship. From the little I read you seem like a very caring and understanding person, you'll have no problem finding someone to share your life with. He sounds very immature and self centered, and ungrateful for all that you've done. Stop looking at what it could be and look at it for what it is, hopeless. The main problem I see with couples is the person getting screwed in one way or another usually seems to focus on what the other person was, or what they think they could be. Seeing someones potential is a great thing, but at some point you have to realize that he won't ever reach it.
You still love him, that's not unusual and you'll get over it. Love is not always enough, in this case it's definitely not. He's taken advantage of you in so many ways he can't possibly love you, I mean truly love you. You deserve better, go find it. The only way to leave him is just pick up and leave him, don't tip toe around it or hesitate, just go. Find a cheap place until you get done with school and get your life back.
September 7th, 2009 - 08:22
I know,but i love these two institutes..i always loved medicine and law since i was young…….lol
September 7th, 2009 - 16:57
First of all, Don't think you're the only one because I feel like this alot sometimes. You aren't crazy girl, you are human. You just have the guts to admit the things you do… Sometimes crap just gets WAYY to over whelming for us and we result to our "fits" as we call them. It sounds like you're taking alot of medicine so you should see if cutting back and maybe just taking one kind helps? Dont try and quit taking all cold turkey at one time because that might make it worse. Go to your doctor and research different anxiety medicines. Try not to get on to many because I really do believe that in the end that medicine doesn't do anything but mess people up. My mother was diagnosed with bi polar and they put her on medicine that made her like a zombie, which i would have much rather seen all her emotions than none at all. Just be careful about what you're taking… Birth control can make you nuts too. Try maybe an IUD? Thats the new kind that they actually put inside of you so you don't have to take birth control. Im on ortho tri cyclen which doesn't make me moody at all but does tend to give headaches. Ask your doctor about that and maybe they will switch you over. What current medicine are you taking now? Try different methods when you think you are about to flip out .. Maybe turn on some loud music and just jam until you get some of the built energy out. It sounds like you let it all build up which you shouldnt do hun because its so bad for you… When you feel like you need to say something or you're upset, say it and let it out. Just be careful that you try not to hurt peoples feelings. It sounds like you're very happy with your husband which is so good .. Make sure you remind him how appreciative you are that he has helped you and been there for you thru all of your times. See if there is something yall can maybe do together that would help this .. Maybe instead of shopping as therapy, you guys can make dinner together .. or have a movie night .. or clean the house together on sundays or something like that. Let him know you love him but you absolutely hate being cold and that yall need to come to some sort of agreement on the temp in the house. You sound like a strong woman with a good marriage and I think you just hit a rough spot .. Sometimes it seems like things wont get better but they will.. Just try to sit back, relax and take a breather sometimes before you flip out. Try not to think about all the bad things at once .. because remember, it could always be worse. I hope things get better, I'll pray for you.
September 7th, 2009 - 19:15
September 7th, 2009 - 19:56
i dont get it. how can u be undecided with respect to law or medical school? they are completely unrelated.
September 7th, 2009 - 20:00
LLB is degree in law you do for instance in the UK. They don’t have JD’s over there. You do LLB right after secondary school.
September 7th, 2009 - 20:52
The thing i really hate in med jobs is that you have to work like 80 hours a week in some cities….and law school is not a scam,you just need to know where to go in the right time,…
September 7th, 2009 - 22:01
False.
I didn't read all of your gibberish.
This statement comes from a misinterpretation of the tax code by tax protesters. The tax codes state something to the effect of: "…..for the purposes of this section, the term states includes the District of Columbia…".
What Congress meant was that "state" meant all 50 states plus the District of Columbia. Tax Protesters believe that in means only the District of Columbia. Many people have tried this theory in court and none have been victorious.
And….about Bill Conklin. He is a 2-bit scam artist. He offers $100k to people but proclaims himself sole arbiter of who is right or wrong.
The 861 arguments seems to have fallen out of favor with tax protesters. One of the main proponents of this argument, Larken Rose, went to prison a couple of years ago.
File your returns and pay your taxes. You will be much happier in the long run. Tax Protesters always end up broke and alone.
….and I didn't just have to cut and past my answer like you did the question……
September 7th, 2009 - 23:45
Class rank is a good indicator, but it has lots of exceptions. One of them is me. I graduated from a 4th tier law school near the bottom of my class, and I make almost 3 times what my top 5% classmates are making at large firms like Jenner & Block.
September 8th, 2009 - 03:44
You should absolutely go to P.P. I can't believe that these people have ignored your serious condition and I am very pleased with the treatment that I have received at P.P clinics. They are extremely kind, and if you fill out the forms and state that you have a low income you can get your pills and other products absolutely free.
I too am a student and I am able to get everything for free. It may be a bit crowded at the clinics, but just be patient and everything should work out fine. I wish you the best of luck with law school, I too want to do this after I get my degree in psychology.
September 8th, 2009 - 04:53
If you are questioning it, then it is time to move on. Sounds like they want more and more of your time and your family is more important. Your kids will grow up and you will miss it all. I think it is probably time for you to find something that works better for you.
Good luck!
September 8th, 2009 - 06:21
Good movie!
September 8th, 2009 - 14:30
who cares what they say, your still getting the pills for cheaper, right?
just go along with it, and stop arguing. you should be happy your getting the pills for a lower price. just ignore what they say.
September 8th, 2009 - 22:39
I went to engineering school, worked as an engineer for three years, now i want to go to law school…..i really always wanted to be a lawyer…
engineering school was tough too by the way.
September 8th, 2009 - 22:41
Liar!
September 8th, 2009 - 23:32
Abolishing compulsory attendance has been a sick dream of businesses that want to create a slave wage class for a long time. Education can still be the silver bullet to poverty, and a good education accounts for most of the social mobility left in the system. Ridiculous proposal, and self-defeating, since it leaves businesses that need skilled workers with fewer and fewer options. It's a recipe for a low-end economy.
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September 25th, 2009 - 10:23
The profession of a lawyer means meeting people who don’t respect law or have some legal issue or the other in all the cases that the lawyer takes up.If not his client then the other party would be on the other side of the law.This is the essence of legal practice or else this would not exist at all.
The reasons mentioned above are true indeed.